Children are naturally expressive, but communicating their thoughts and feelings with words is a skill we develop later in life. A child’s first language of expression is play, and through it they invite us to glimpse their inner experiences. By understanding and engaging in play with your child, you can develop a deeper understanding of their inner world.
The language of play and understanding with curiosity
From a very young age, children explore the world around them through the lens of play – this is how they connect, process and express. The best way to understand your child at a deeper level is to observe and engage in their world. Parents can learn a lot about their children simply by watching their play. Be curious and observant as your children play and notice themes or narratives that may emerge.
If you are looking for a way to strengthen your bond and connection, there’s no better way than getting down on their level and playing together. Let them take the lead and ask open‑ended questions that encourage creativity and thought. It’s important that play is emotionally safe for kiddos; avoid criticism and providing too much direction—this may actually be harder than you think when you let yourself play in this way!
Using play to address concerns
As you play with your child, if you notice concerning themes or aggression in their expression this could be a great way to facilitate playful discussion about how to solve problems and move through their emotions in a more constructive way.
Let’s open up new channels of communication between parents and children and start engaging in play. If you or your child are needing support, please feel free to reach out to deanna@radiantlifecounselingaz.com to learn more about therapy for you or your child today.
